6/22/09

My parents like to mess with me...


Last summer, much to the dismay of my children, my sister and I went on a “sister” vacation. We packed our bags and flew to visit my sister-in-law, who conveniently lives right outside Daytona Beach!

For years we talked about a trip like this, but it took her family’s tragedy to make us all realize that today is our someday.

This particular sister-in-law of mine has a home in a residential neighborhood, with a lovely screened in pool in her backyard. (And a well-stocked bar, I might add.)

On this quiet Sunday morning, K. and I were floating in the pool on rafts, soaking in the sun and probably laughing about something. During a lull in our conversation I heard the faint streams of a beautiful song wafting though the trees. It was Dean Martin singing “Everybody Loves Somebody Sometime.” I strained to hear, thinking I was surely hearing things. As I floated, another familiar song, Dusty Springfield singing You Don’t Have to Say You Love Me, came softly traveling on a breeze.

I insisted that my sister go put on her hearing aids, and we got out of the pool and walked toward the part of the yard that the music appeared to be coming from. It was filled with dense foliage so we couldn’t see anything, and the songs maintained that soft but sure sound.


We decided to return to the pool, and as we continued to float on the rafts for the next hour we were serenaded by all of the familiar songs of our childhood. I could see my father and mother sitting on our back porch, cocktails in hand while listening to these same songs on the radio and laughing about something that happened that day. It was eerily comforting.

When my sister-in-law returned from church and joined us in the pool the music vanished. I asked her about the neighbors behind the forest, and she was puzzled.

The only music she ever heard coming from that direction was rap.




54 comments:

  1. Wow! Dean Martin and Dusty Springfield; it's been a long time since I've heard those old faves of my Mom. I did load some Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass to my iPod recently as I find I miss the music my Mom used to play when I was a child.

    It almost seems like your Mom was specially communing with you at that moment. How very lovely.....

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  2. I love when that happens... thanks for sharing!

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  3. I have a playlist of the '50s. OK every decade!!! I love to listen to a different decade of music depending on company.

    At least your ghosts were nice!! Mine like to wake me up at night with noise like a random alarm clock going off for no reason!! DAMN DEAD FATHER IN LAW!!

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  4. Perhaps a neat way for them to say hello to you and you sister.

    Lovely post, VM, great way to start the morning.

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  5. ooooh! Just got a little shiver! Cool post!

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  6. That is wonderful! Andels are great at doing things like that.

    You ARE still coming here in August aren't you?

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  7. Did your sister-in-law's parents, by chance, like rap????

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  8. So does this mean that when my children are away they will hear 80s music?

    Sounds like a great time and a neat reminder of your shared childhood.

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  9. Isn't it funny how a song can conjure up such beautiful memories and transport you back in time...

    It was your folks saying hello and hanging out with you, I firmly believe that!

    Peace - Rene

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  10. That is interesting. Maybe the kid gave his dad a reprieve from the noise and let him listen to some nice calm, not grinding your nerves music.

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  11. What a great, slightly creepy, story!

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  12. Great way to start my Mon! touching post!

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  13. What a nice nod to your sister vacation. Yay!

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  14. I love Dusty. Haven't thought about her in years. Time to do some downloading.

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  15. guess their tastes had progressed

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  16. Dad loved Big Band, Mom loved what is today called "Classic Country" -- lots of heartbreak and drinking.

    And my daughter, much to the disgust of her friends, loves showtunes because she grew up on them.

    Thanks for bringing that all back!

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  17. Snoop Doggie channeling Dean Martin? It could happen.....

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  18. I like the image of you and your sister floating and rafts... you prompting her to get her hearing aids... listening to nostalgic music... thinking of your folks and your childhood. Smiles.

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  19. ohhhh a little scary! but then i get scared easily!

    smiles, bee
    xxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

    i like that music too! ps

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  20. Freaky-deaky. And also lovely.

    xoxo

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  21. I LOVE the Rat Pack. I have that same picture of Dean-o, Frank and Sammy hangin in my office at work.

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  22. It's funny how things like that happen huh? Great story.

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  23. I just wanted to tell you that I am glad you keep reminding us about your sister's loss even as you make us snort tea out our noses with laughter. Thanks.

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  24. Hmmmm. So either the aids aren't working as well as she needs them to, or you need to get your own ears checked?

    I love that you had a sister vacation... Doing it again?

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  25. I love hearing stories like this. I have always wanted to believe that those we have lost can find small ways to communicate with us if we're open to it.

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  26. Thanks for sharing that wonderful story with us!! Glad your parents are keeping on eye on you ladies.

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  27. You had me at well-stocked bar...

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  28. my parents love rap


    seriously...this is really beautiful

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  29. Oh look, no room to comment because someone has like 2 million FOLLOWERS.

    I still love Dean Martin.

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  30. That's a great story about your parents. I think they did that because they love you, not just messing with you. Well, maybe not.

    Have a terrific day. :)

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  31. I think you have been touched by the supernatural. You seem to have a lot of this kind of stuff happen to you!

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  32. I sit here with tears rolling down my cheeks. In the words of my beloved Mother, whom I miss, "I HOPE YOUR SATISFIED!" Haha. That is a wonderful story.

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  33. What a beautiful story! I love that you got to spend the afternoon that close to your parents again.

    xoxo

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  34. Funny how things happen at just the time you need them.......

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  35. Dean Martin--Thursday nights with my mother. She loved her Dino like no other man. If I was off school on Fridays or it was summer--I got to watch Dean Martin. Oh that song---it just brings back the best memories. Of stolen moments on Thursday nights with my mom and of ice clinking in high ball glasses....!

    How sweet!
    Judi

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  36. Very strange and X-Files-ish ... but such a wonderful moment you two shared.

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  37. What a neat moment to share with each other - although as you said, it was a bit scary!


    Visiting from SITS...by the way.

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  38. A little scary but at least it was shared with each other.Popping in from SITS!

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  39. Neat story. I love Dean Martin and can picture him singing that song. Hope y'all get to visit there again.

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  40. Guess they needed a sister vacation too!

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  41. Now that is a bit eerie. So glad you could soak in the vibrations as well as the water.

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  42. Yep. I'd say you were "messed with" in a very good way.

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