tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post5074275950192325273..comments2024-03-26T05:19:29.340-04:00Comments on Vodkamom: Guest PostVodka Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04734323418017847775noreply@blogger.comBlogger57125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-988974466811937402010-03-28T21:56:10.520-04:002010-03-28T21:56:10.520-04:00There are people who know each other all their liv...There are people who know each other all their lives, who share everything, religion, friends, likes and dislikes and they can marry and it can be a disaster.<br />And then there are people who are totally the opposite of each other and everything works.<br />I am an example of that .. <br />You love your brother and you want him to be happy. But you nor any of us, really knows what will make another person happy.<br />Often it is the last thing that would make Us happy..<br />So if you love him and want him to stay close to you, never say anything negative and or judgemental.<br />And whatever you think of Chinagirl, smile and act like you love her. Because you love your brother.<br />Wishing you all good luck ..Notes From ABroadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12202279303962539035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-84956823452169667882009-12-31T20:05:03.453-05:002009-12-31T20:05:03.453-05:00Just found Vodka Mom's blog and love it. Hopp...Just found Vodka Mom's blog and love it. Hopping around on hers I found this one that you wrote and man! 2 things.<br />1. You crack me up and I love your writing. <br />2. You are so lucky to have a place to vent where your family can't find you. <br /> That story about your brother was riviting to me, I hope I get to find out what happened in the end. I could do an entire blog site about my brother in-law and his girlfriend now wifey. She's 42 and he's 56 and they can't wait to have kids! wtf? Okay, are you ready for this - his family never stops talking about how awesome that will be and how they can't wait. Okay, I'm done. I guess I had somewhere to vent where they can't find me either. Thanks."Cottage By The Sea"https://www.blogger.com/profile/04016670928484219905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-64763659755402549212009-12-31T02:36:44.441-05:002009-12-31T02:36:44.441-05:00das Requisit erscheint, welche jenes levitra gene...das Requisit erscheint, welche jenes <a href="http://t7-isis.org" rel="nofollow">levitra generika</a> viagra online bestellen rezeptfrei [url=http//t7-isis.org]levitra kaufen[/url]Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-24411383267190023812009-12-21T08:48:48.152-05:002009-12-21T08:48:48.152-05:00That Chinese inscription up there is a little scar...That Chinese inscription up there is a little scary right? Arent you dying to know what it says??<br /><br />WHat happened. I'm riveted!! <br /><br />Oh I soooo need an outlet to vent my sis in laws transgressions towards me!! Oer ahould I say, Passive Aggression!<br /> GREAT POST!!Hollywood Farm Filmshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02161302689500104162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-46245902076584005672009-11-22T22:10:26.358-05:002009-11-22T22:10:26.358-05:00Online Buy Viagra mexico Buy Viagra mexico
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Wonder ...Yep... you just gotta BE there for him...<br /><br />Wonder if she just wants a free ride to America???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-31055523878880139722009-08-11T11:19:18.648-04:002009-08-11T11:19:18.648-04:00I don't understand decaffeinated relationships...I don't understand decaffeinated relationships.Marinkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16489592695993949578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-27314509716104153612009-08-11T10:55:14.766-04:002009-08-11T10:55:14.766-04:00Cora and Scope...I hope the bro has found what you...Cora and Scope...I hope the bro has found what you two have...I was just on Scopes blog...now I'm heading over to you Cora;)Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00625673916138703709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-84788661602409294252009-08-11T10:54:14.785-04:002009-08-11T10:54:14.785-04:00Well I suppose I should have gone deeper into the ...Well I suppose I should have gone deeper into the story...She has had coffee before...just not with my brother...Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00625673916138703709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-84277679320897745782009-08-11T10:47:19.102-04:002009-08-11T10:47:19.102-04:00I understand your concern for your brother, but he...I understand your concern for your brother, but he should be grown enough to make his own life decisions without much hand holding. If he's not, it's not for you to stress yourself about. I am sure that you have enough in your own life to juggle without raising a 3rd child. I do understand however your concern.<br />Where I feel that you go negative on her being a moral and religious person is that "they haven't ever had, you know "coffee". This goes back to the religion thing (she does not believe in coffee before marriage). Is it me...it's kinda weird to marry someone you've never had, um, coffee with...right?". Thinking it weird that she is a virgin or that he hasn't taken her out for a 'test drive' prior to marriage, based on her religious convictions is going negative before you have even met her.<br />If I were you, I would wait it out. He may marry her and be happier than ever or it mad be a bad mix, but without knowing her, you can't make a decision about what is best for him. Not that he would give you a say anyhow.WeaselMommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01695797746467444304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-79820045800812910752009-08-11T10:38:10.051-04:002009-08-11T10:38:10.051-04:00As I was reading this certain parts of it gave me ...As I was reading this certain parts of it gave me chills of familiarity. A 43 year old fella.... a 36 year old gal.... the fact that they haven't spent much time together, yet, it obviously, feels perfectly right.... Well, as I see Scope already told you up there (hi, Scope!!) that's kinda our situation too.<br /><br />Scope and I met on our blogs back in December. Soon we were emailing and talking on the phone, and I really can't explain it, but we just CLICKED. <br /><br />In April he flew all the way from Chicago to Seattle to meet me, and when we met it felt like we'd known each other forever. We visit once a month. He's been to Seattle twice, and I'll be making my third trip to stay with him in Chicago next week. And maybe it sounds crazy, but somehow it's just right... except for the 2000 miles between us!!<br /><br />So who knows, maybe your brother is onto something. :-)Corahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02640568359378959501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-72965531733585663802009-08-11T10:09:08.977-04:002009-08-11T10:09:08.977-04:00All you had to say was that they'd never had &...All you had to say was that they'd never had "coffee."<br /><br />I'd never consider a woman without drinkin' her coffee first!Real Live Lesbianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272384473977144125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-48789886541355396312009-08-11T10:00:24.812-04:002009-08-11T10:00:24.812-04:00Hmmm...WeaselMomma, I reread my post, and I am in ...Hmmm...WeaselMomma, I reread my post, and I am in NO way "judging her negatively for being a moral person" What I said was, religion is WAY more important in her life than his.<br /><br />As far as my brother "respected her and her religious beliefs and cares enough about her not to pressure her to become wayward too" my fear is that he's proposing JUST to have coffee.<br /><br />My point here was I'm worried for my big brother and the only thing I can do is watch. I have picked him up off the floor, more than once when woman drama rears it's head. As a blogger, I feel better when I get it out. I didn't want to do it on my blog, I'm sure one day she'll find it.<br /><br />I truly, truly hope it works out for the both of them...but I think you misunderstand my point of view.Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00625673916138703709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-58662519695902874882009-08-11T09:43:12.578-04:002009-08-11T09:43:12.578-04:00First, holy sh*t!
Second, My best friends uncle d...First, holy sh*t!<br /><br />Second, My best friends uncle did this. He "courted" a woman from the Philippines on the internet. Now she lives with him in America, they've been married for 10+ years with 2 kids. <br /><br />Sometimes this kinda stuff works out? Just try to show support. You don't want this getting in the way of your relationship with your family.Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05601741373072886320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-32074932765595291582009-08-11T08:26:44.304-04:002009-08-11T08:26:44.304-04:00It always sucks when family does something SO stup...It always sucks when family does something SO stupid....you're a doll, you'll be there for him no matter what...<br />xoxox♥ Brajahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693196044262677095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4742202280973813643.post-18692647434225094952009-08-11T07:16:19.246-04:002009-08-11T07:16:19.246-04:00Brilliant drawing.
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