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We worked in the same elementary school, had children that were close in age and had that unique ability to make each other laugh until we cried. That’s hard to find.
We’ve talked of fumbling tooth fairies, soccer and hockey teams, summer sports camps, strange childhood illnesses, prosthetic limbs, under-age drinking violations, birth control, college applications and what to do with a somewhat empty house. We’ve covered almost any parental topic available- and then some.
Most of our conversations over the years have certainly revolved around our children, but not anymore.
We’ve discussed several issues as of late that have forced us to look inside ourselves. They’ve ranged from painful divorce, mood swings, hot flashes and the big change. These discussions have been particularly difficult for a variety of reasons, but I think it’s because of this fact. Most women, at least the ones close to me, don’t always notice the changes that are occurring within themselves.
They don’t notice the anxiety level, the quick temper, and the mood swings that one would rather attribute to the post-teenage children that refuse to move out of the house. We’re finding that it’s not until someone who loves us points out the fact that others around us are suffering- and there’s no need for that to happen.
I had the ladies over for a luncheon several weeks ago so that we could all talk about what was happening as a group- instead of repeating the same conversation over and over with each friend. Apparently these symptoms are contagious- or we’re all the same age. Pick one.
We compared symptoms, complaints, doctor’s suggestions, great info we’ve gotten from resources that are both accurate and inaccurate. We simply believe the things we WANT to believe, and smile.
We all agreed on one thing- that we are in charge of how we feel, and that we need to take the proper steps in helping us all enjoy this next incredible part of our journey. We need to celebrate the fact that we are still here to enjoy it- and help ourselves feel awesome.
While we shared info about prescriptions that were helping, we also shared what products were helping us with our changing bodies. I was so excited to tell them about what Poise is offering, and they are excited to begin helping themselves feel better. The Poise brand’s revolutionary new feminine wellness line currently includes five products to help with the symptoms of menopause. Two that my friends and I will be looking for are the Roll-On Cooling Gel that will help us feel comfortable and refreshed when a hot flash strikes or alternatively, the Body Cooling Towelettes. These feature a portable, re-sealable package. They’re going to be easy to use anywhere we go.
We cared so much about our bodies (inside and out) when we were 16 – and we should care even more now that we’re, um, well, older than that.
Sometimes, we just need a gentle reminder.
Poise brand wants to help women approach this life stage with confidence by being the first to start The 2nd Talk, a whole new way to talk about menopause and other wellness issues for women over 40 and introducing a new, first-of-its-kind line of over-the-counter menopause products designed to work naturally with her body and provide comfort from symptoms.
Poise wants to rally 1 million women to pledge to have The 2nd Talk by World Menopause Day on October 18. Join the conversation at The2ndTalk.com.
We left the luncheon feeling that we were not alone; and proud that we had pledged to each other that we were important enough to help ourselves.
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122 comments:
I feel most confident when I'm having a good hair day and I'm dressed in clothing that fits me well.
mami2jcn at gmail dot com
I feel confident when my hair is good my clothes fit well and I'm wearing my poise! I can laugh, sneeze, and even got after those errant foul balls at the baseball field without worrying if I'm goning to leak. Now they need to make thong shaped ones! Please!
I just hit 40 a few months ago ... no major changes other than making me "think" about things a little more. I'd say the same as the others, I feel confident when I feel "put together". Oh, and my confidence plummets when I have to sneeze ... Lord knows that's never the same after children and age!
I feel most confident when I get back to exercising and working on my weight (again). It makes me feel better physically and mentally and I find myself feeling better about everything in general.
I feel more confident after a shower and my hair done. Who doesn't?? Also, after any compliment about anything - I feel very confident!! I'm a needy girl and need pats on my back more than I care to admit!!
I feel most confident on the days when I know I'm wearing pants with a zipper that does not cow before the laws of gravity. Fight The Man!
I feel most confident with my camera in my hands.
I feel most confident, after a good work out.
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I feel most confident when I feel loved and cared for. When I know I have friends that want to be around me and I with them.
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I feel most confident when one of my school wee ones wants to hold my hand and tell me all about their day....or dog, or that their brother pees in the woods....
On a good hair day, of course...
I feel most confident when I'm among friends.
I feel the most confident when I am well rested and wearing something that I think flatters my figure.
reklaw422 at hotmail dot com
When I'm sleeping ...
I feel most confident when I'm asked a question at work, and I definitively know the answer. I'm actually GOOD at my job!
I feel most confident when I actually take the time to care for myself. With three boys, i'm usually more of an afterthought and rarely have time to get myself ready to go out after i've gotten them all set to go. I'm always late and always rushing so generally go out looking like rather disheveled.
i feel being confident just being my self!
freebiel0ve@yahoo.com
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freebiel0ve@yahoo.com
i feel most confident after i leave church!:)
vanitizebaby at yahoo dot com
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I feel most confident after getting my hair cut and colored!
pokergrl8 at gmail.com
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pokergrl8 at gmail.com
I feel most confident when I am surrounded by the people that I love the most doing something fun.
I feel most confident when my baby is sleeping peacefully, and my husband is snuggling with me.
I feel most confident when I think I have my shit together. Which isn't that often these days, unfortch:(
I feel most confident on Friday at the end of the day. I know I've made it through another week. Margarita time!
Well being right dab in the middle of a flash right now - I'm most confident between 12 a.m. and 6 a.m. when I know that no one can see the mess it leaves my face in!!!!!!!!!!
I am most confident after visiting spa and having my hair done
elena150980@yahoo.com
https://twitter.com/ElenaIstomina/status/228959625234481152
elena150980@yahoo.com
I feel most confident when I can't feel my muffin top. :)
I feel most confident when i feel good on the inside (emotionally) amypugmire@live.com
tweeted. amypugmire@live.com
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I feel most confident when I am teaching:)
I feel most confident when I feel completely pulled together--my outfit, hair, house, life. Unfortunately it's rare.
I love your blog so very much; time and again you hit the nail right on the head. Thank you for your thoughtful writing! I'm 45, and due to altogether too many commitments, can only rarely work at my own trade, carpenter & woodworker. When I can, though, that's when I feel the most confidant!
My confidence is at an all time high when all my grey hairs are covered.
BTW, the joke "you made me laugh so hard tears ran down my legs" comes to mind when I hear about Poise.
When I'm shakin' it on stage at my Zumba class. :) Those Body Cooling Towelettes sound like they'd be perfect to take along.
I feel most confident after I overcome something that I am afraid of...again and again. Experience makes me confident, strong, wise and graceful.
I feel most confident when I'm laughing out loud. There is something so therapeutic about laughing.
I feel most confident when I am playing with my kids:)
My parents told me that I could do anything that I put my mind to. It stuck. I'm always confident. Not cocky, but confident.
I feel most confident when I am prepared and well rested.
I feel most confident when I've given a great speech or presentation.
when i have a good hair day i feel more confident, thismomwins@gmail.com
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when ive gotten a lot of sleep and am happy! scg00387 at yahoo dot com
Oh, when I eat nails for breakfast. :)
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Confidence Top Ten Checklist
When I abide by the following checklist before most situations, I find myself feeling most confident.
10. A good night's sleep. For me, 8-10 hours!
9. Wake up with plenty of extra time before I need to be somewhere and leave plenty early so I never have to worry about being late!
8. Eat breakfast! My favorite is a slim Jim!
7. Shower! And I never hoard that fancy body wash someone gave me as a gift. You never know what tomorrow brings, so use it up!
6. Use plenty of deodorant.
5. Always brush AND floss!
4.Choose makeup. Always use some glitter.
3.Wear clean but comfortable underwear, even if they are granny panties. My husband has learned this is part of the package.
2. Partake in a pre-event cocktail when applicable.
1. Take a picture of yourself looking super awesome and post it to Facebook and tell all of your friends exactly what you are doing today. If they are good friends, they will care and boost your confidence with comments and get you out the door and on your way!!
(I put clothes on somewhere in there I don't post pictures in my granny panties- although it would be AWE SOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
i feel most confident when i am wearing nice clothes and have my hair and makeup fixed nicely
debbiebellows (at) gmail (dot) com
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I feel the most confident when I am wearing nice clothes, jewelry and have my hair done nicely.
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After having a good week at the gym!
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I feel most confident when I take the time to do my hair & make-up.
Cathy
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I guess I better join the 2nd talk to find out more. Now, I need to get that roll-on Cooling Gel thing! I feel most confident when I am with my family and be myself, very simple.
Amy [at] utry [dot] it
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I feel the most confident w/ heels and a flowy dress
family74014 at gmail dot com
I feel most confident when I feel fit, am dressed well and appropriate.
tcarolinep at gmail dot com.
https://twitter.com/tcarolinep/status/230560721711271936
I feel most confident after a day of taking care of myself. I go for a haircut and color, a facial and a professional tooth cleaning. I love they way my teeth feel after I get them cleaned. It's a refreshment day I take a couple of times a year.
I feel most confident when I am surrounded by people I love and love me. All the little things don't matter and I am comfortable in my own skin with them.
I feel most confident when I am not bloated, having a good hair day, had enough rest, and stay calm and cool
I feel most confident when I have plenty of information and can make my own choices. Great post. Thank you.
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I feel the most confident after my husband compliments me on my outfit- he doesn't usually say much, so when he does, it means a lot!
chambanachik@gmail.com
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I feel most confident all sweaty working out with my husband.
jane@taingamala.com
Tweeted! :)
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I feel the best when I'm working out. I'm sure I don't look as good as I feel when I'm all sweaty and mak-up free, but in my head I feel awesome!
When I'm toned, primped & pumped for the day! =)
kytah00@yahoo.com
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When I have my makeup on
merleandtina@yahoo.com
https://twitter.com/HappyTina0115/status/232585200754905088
merleandtina@yahoo.com
I feel most confident when I think I did a good job at work or when someone complements me. Thanks for the review and giveaway.
songyueyu at gmail
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I always feel confident in a new outfit.
nuthouse(at)centurytel(dot)net
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I feel most confident after I've had a great ride on my very challenging horse.
jvmwordsmith@gmail.com
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I feel confident when I am doing things I know I rock at doing - and when I get compliments later its a major confidence boost!
patis2(at)msn(dot)com
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I'm most confident on the water, in a boat.
cait (period) a (period) hart @gmail.com
I feel most confident when I'm wearing an outfit I know is flattering on me and have had time to straighten my hair and put on a little make-up. Only takes about 10 minutes, but the difference it makes in how I feel is worth 10 times as much!
I feel the most confident when I'm wearing scarf.
tianayubi at gmail dot com
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I feel most confident in a new outfit!
kelliescamera at gmail dot com
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I feel most confident after getting my waxing done and a pedicure!
pittsy82@hotmail.com
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I feel most confident when I hear my husband say how good I look, especially since I've had 3 kids.
huntandride@hotmail.com
https://twitter.com/jen_r_horn/status/236190024742367232
huntandride@hotmail.com
https://twitter.com/elliebunny24/status/236577801292107776
elliebunny at hotmail dot com
I feel confident when I dress up nice!
ajoy1332 at yahoo dot com
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I feel confident when I smile! Thanks for a chance to win and have a great day!
kmassmanATgmailDOTcom
I am most confident when I know that people love me whether I'm dressed like a rag lady or not.
april dot vrugtman at gmail dot com
I feel most confident after I go to church! Always uplifts me!
landfjacobson @ charter.net
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landfjacobson @ charter.net
I feel most confident when my household chores are all done and I have an hour or so to relax and put my feet up!
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I feel most confident when I've gotten a clean bill of health after a checkup at the doctor's office. altern147 [at] yahoo [dot] com
I'm most confident when I've just gotten a great hair cut and I'm in my favorite clothing.
willitara [at] gmail [dot] com
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willitara [at] gmail [dot] com
I feel most confident with a fresh and sassy haircut
adrianecoros(at)gmail(dot)com
Tweet!
https://twitter.com/LAMusing/status/238487225342504962adrianecoros(at)gmail(dot)com
A nice outfit and a little make-up makes me feel confident!
bingomamanorma(at)gmail(dot)com
I'm most confident when I'm out with my grandsons and everyone mistakes them for my children.
Thanks for the giveaway!
eswright18 at gmail dot com
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I feel confident now because all the worse things in life are behind me, I survived all of them and getting older is really fun.
mybeachylife at gmail dot com
When I have showered after a good night's sleep.
MCantu1019 at aol dot com
tweeted https://twitter.com/mermont84/status/238799746477740032
I feel most confident when I'm with my friends.
chipdip2010(at)hotmail(dot)com
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I feel most confident when working on my macro photography. When I am in the zone and know that I am going to get "that" shot, there is no better feeling.
Angie
14earth at gmail dot com
I tweeted here: https://twitter.com/MsTofuFairy/status/239033280685551617
Angie
14earth at gmail dot com
I feel most confident when I’m in the swimming pool teaching my Arthritis Class.
Thanks for the contest.
having nice crisp clothes makes me feel confident! Thanks for a super giveaway!
Tweeted:
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Thanks for the chance to win!
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