8/4/10

I think I like "fatty lipoma" better than the other thing.


Dear Sassy,

I want to apologize for bursting into tears and sobbing on the way home from our errands yesterday.


Granted, your screaming and ranting at me for daring to ask you a simple question is something I’m used to.


However, I received a call from the doctor not long after the sonogram. It was not good news.



And if I spend too much time trying to hold you close and tell you how much I love you – just humor me. Most likely after the MRI on Monday we'll be back to hating each other.




But for now, let’s rock this city and forget our troubles, shall we?



80 comments:

Kate@SurroundedbyPenises said...

My fingers are crossed that you have good news Monday!

Travis Erwin said...

Here's hoping all turns out well.

Meathead said...

Awe :(
Lots of hugs. Too bad you have to wait til Monday. that just sucks. Hoping it's "nothing".

Laoch of Chicago said...

Good health wishes to you.

Maggie May said...

Oh God I know how awful it is waiting waiting for damn test results. I KNOW. My husband always tells me 'more often than not, things are OK. usually, these things are not the worst scenerio.' and yeah, sometimes they ARE, but you deal with that when you get there ( theoretically ) Meanwhile keep that in mind. In all the times I've had horrible scares, (including one ovarian cancer scare that looked very bad on ultrasound) i've never had the worst result, but I have spent a lot of time afraid. Hang in there.

Cheryl D. said...

Here's to hearing good news!

Michele said...

I'm now officially worried. My fingers are crossed that the doctors are just being cautious.

Angie Ledbetter said...

You know my prayers, thoughts, hopes and hugs are with you right now!!!

a Broad said...

Oh sweetheart ! Been there and done that and have all sorts of little scars here and there to show for my bravery !
Fingers crossed and thoughts and prayers and good wishes and happy mojo going out to you ...

J.J. said...

Oh hon, that SUCKS! I hope the MRI goes well. If you want/need any advice, you know where to find me.

Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Annie said...

Sending prayers and ((((hugs)))).

Yo is Me said...

sending you good vibes and sloppy wet kisses. i think this weekend will be GREAT and is just what the doctor would have ordered.

hey, my word verification is

"benign" !!!!

Craig Glenn said...

Best wishes... thinking of you.

Gigi said...

This totally bites. Totally! I want to tell you not to worry until you have something to worry about; but that's impossible. So instead, have a wonderful weekend and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kate said...

Damn them for making you wait the weekend.

Snappy Di said...

Sending positive vibes into your world!

Di

Lori said...

Hoping and praying that everything turns out just fine.

A Mom on Spin said...

Oh we like "fatty" much better!

Prayers to you. . .

only a movie said...

Lots of positive thoughts and love out to you. xoxo

Theresa said...

Hoping for the best news possible!

Malisa said...

Think only positive thoughts! The waiting time is the worst! I feel confident that the MRI will produce good news! In the meantime,you will be in my prayers!

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Sara J. Henry said...

Thinking good thoughts for you.

Merrily Down the Stream said...

Just went through this. Mine are cysts and calcifications they need to keep an eye on. Hoping your results are all good. xox

Mandy said...

Will be thinking of you and hoping all will be well. Sending positive thoughts your way!

TMCPhoto said...

calls from Doctors with not good news suck. I' sending good thoughts your way, and also if you're open to it some healing thoughts too. Telling you to forget about it until Monday isn't going to help, so I won't. Instead, I'll say Rock that city and make it one unforgettable trip

Elizabeth said...

again, no worries. I have a good feeling. It will be okay.

Elenka said...

Sending positive vibes your way. I know how the waiting feels. It sucks big time.

The Only Girl said...

I'm sure you'll be hating each other again really soon. I'll keep my fingers crossed for it.

Red Dirt Mummy said...

Sending lots of positive good health vibes and thoughts your way.

Lisa said...

I hope you and the girls have a fabulous time in NYC. And that you get good news next week. Which all should go without saying, not that THAT stopped me.

Jenn @ Juggling Life said...

I will be thinking good thoughts for you--"only a scare, only a scare."

B's Mom said...

Sending positive thoughts your way.

Sue said...

Monday will be a good day. Just keep those positive thoughts in your head, and if you believe it then it will come true!

Take care, Sue

Anonymous said...

新婚一年,我們竟然就相敬如冰!
當初被沖昏頭,沒發現她如局外人的冷淡,於是我合理的懷疑,她有外遇!
於是我找上徵信社為我調查,
徵信社的回報資料攤在我眼前,我真的難以接受,
我一直為了要給她過好日子每天努力工作,
然而她卻在同個時刻帶男人回家溫存!
徵信社進一步的調查之後,甚至發現他們早就在一起很多年,
根據徵信社給的資料,我才發現,原來她只是因為我的錢才嫁給我!
那麼我們剛出生的孩子,極可能也不是我的孩子嗎?
如果沒有請徵信社幫我調查,到底我還要被利用多久!!

Anonymous said...

明知道他有婚姻,筱蝶還是陷進去了
他告訴筱蝶,不是不願意離婚
只是孩子還小,他不忍心孩子這麼小就面臨父母離婚的難題
他告訴筱蝶,他有多麼愛她
他多想馬上離婚光明正大和她在一起
他告訴筱蝶,她值得更好的人,但是他捨不得放手
只要給他兩年時間,他就會馬上離婚
多麼動聽的話,為了他的承諾,筱蝶甘心傻等
一心等對方離婚、一心想要成為他的太太
然而當兩年的時間過去了
男人還是沒有離婚
他淡淡的對筱蝶說:我配不上妳,所以我要放妳自由!

Anonymous said...

I've got everything crossed for you that your results on Monday are good ones and not the "other thing."

KaLynn said...

Have said a prayer for you!

Brian Miller said...

praying for a good answer VM...

SkylersDad said...

It is going to be alright, I can just feel it!

(you WILL let me feel it, won't you?)

OK, bad attempt at humor, good thoughts coming your way!

Joanna Jenkins said...

Cheering you on.
xoxo

Elizabeth said...

Damn. I hate to hear about this and about your anxiety. I will keep my fingers crossed that all will be well and that it is, indeed, something like a lipoma. My good friend went through something like this in college, and in the exact same place. Her doctor told her not to worry that all he needed to do was "slit it and scoop it." You wouldn't believe the laughs we got from that phrase over the next thirty or so years. Here's to hoping that whatever it is, all you'll need is for the doctor to "slit it and scoop it."

Dawn said...

Praying for good news!

Anne said...

They wouldn't make you wait until Monday if they were really freaked out, right? Prayers going up for you.

The Kid said...

On the Bright side, whatever happens on Monday will make an excellent blog post!
But in all seriousness I hope you are all right. I don't comment very often but I read all the time and i admire you so much for being able to post every day. you cheer me up so much sometimes and I think Sassy needs a big kick up the bum for not appreciating you more. I know this because I'm about the same age and sometimes I need a big kick up the bum too!
so I hope monday goes well. Praying for you!

Star Child said...

I am sending you positive thoughts and vibes.

My partner is covered in lipomas, covered! They are very common. And I am sure that is all you have.

He had one removed and examined and given the all clear.

I know you will have a similar result.

Good luck for Monday xx

WeaselMomma said...

Have a great weekend and I'm crossing my fingers for good news on Monday.

Gaston Studio said...

Sending positive prayers your way. I'll be doing the same thing in a week or two.

duffylou said...

You are entitled to your fantabulous weekend. Do not let bad vibes interrupt your precious "me" time.
I am sending all the positive thoughts I can for you. You work that good mojo and all will be well.

Amy, formerly known as Scandy! said...

Awww, Vodka Mom, sounds like you need a drink with Scandy... stop on by and I'll make it mo' better.

xoxo,

slow panic said...

i HATE the waiting. hoping all is well

Jeff D'Antonio said...

I won't tell you not to worry, because I know that never works. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, okay?

Queen-Size funny bone said...

Good vibes coming your way.....

Rene/ Not The Rockefellers said...

Girl!
Praying for you
Wisdom, Grace, Strength
Good News!
These are the times I wish I had some Universal clout..and that John Travola could fly me to NYC,from Portland ME so that I could hug the stuffin' out of you :)

Rene

Have your fun, Vodka Girls... :)

Wendy said...

Has your Mom shown up lately? M... maybe she can give you some insight into this...?
Know that i'll be thinking of you!
=-)

Anonymous said...

大陸包二奶問題對台商家庭是一種重大衝擊,
在台灣抓姦的困難度原本就很高,何況是大陸抓姦
於是許多人面對丈夫包二奶卻由於大陸抓姦的困難重重而遲遲不敢大陸抓姦
專業私家偵探協助您解決大陸抓姦問題,
熟悉內地法律、豐沛人脈關係,能夠協助您成功大陸抓姦

Anonymous said...

入行多年,很多人一聽我是個女子偵探,總難免好奇的詢問。
其實會當起女子偵探也是誤打誤撞;
當初老公外遇我求助無門,找上徵信社,
但是面對男性徵信人員,許多話總難以啟齒。
後來我離婚了,卻當了女子偵探
因為我知道很多人面對女子偵探總是會比較安心;
每當聽見客戶的委屈,我總想起當初的自己,
能夠幫客戶解決問題,很多時候真的不僅僅是成就感而已,
更多了助人的快樂。現在我也有了論及婚嫁的男友,
他也很贊成我女子偵探的工作,現在我不僅更有自信,
也更懂得如何保鮮即將到來的婚姻生活!

Anonymous said...

男人有了外遇,但是他不想離婚
外遇情人面前,他可以享受著年輕戀愛般的美好
在回歸家庭時刻,他可以享受著老婆對他無微不至的照顧
在同事朋友面前,他可以享受著眾人對他的忌妒與羨慕
男人有了外遇,但是他不想離婚,他只想自私的擁有一切

Anonymous said...

讓我們為您解決外遇蒐證問題;
我們有經驗豐富的外遇蒐證人員,
並且配有先進科技器材可以即時外遇蒐證
加上認真負責的態度,
每個外遇蒐證委託都會徹底跟蹤蒐證!
誠信、專業、保密,是我們的辦案原則,
把您外遇蒐證的需求安心的交給我們!

Anonymous said...

專業外遇調查服務,為您查清伴侶行蹤、第三者背景,
專業外遇調查給您詳實的答案!
您或許忙碌的分身乏術無法自行外遇調查
外遇調查的問題交給我們;
您所想要知道的,讓我們專業外遇調查服務徹底調查清楚!

Anonymous said...

你想要離婚,卻不顧多年夫妻的情份。
我知道,是因為你有了外遇。
你寧願把錢滿足她所有慾望,卻不願意多給贍養費!
難道真的要抓姦你才會付出你所應該付出的?
其實我真的不願意去抓姦的,我不願意看到她占據屬於我的位置,
然而如果不抓姦,我就無法拿到我應得的權益!
或許是想要報復吧,或許真的心灰了,
或許我想要看看被抓姦的你們驚慌失措的面孔,
我鼓起了勇氣,打了徵信社的電話:我要抓姦

Anonymous said...

曾經你也愛她的一切,如今卻因為有了婚外情,一切都變成了缺點。
婚外情甜蜜嗎?
因為少了柴米油鹽的破壞,所以婚外情份外浪漫!
婚外情有趣嗎?
因為時間極其寶貴不夠深刻了解對方,所以婚外情份外新鮮!

Anonymous said...

兒子交了個女友,我和老伴都不是很喜歡;
豐富社會歷練的我們一眼就看出這女生不如表現的單純,
但是兒子卻總是認為我們想太多。
朋友提議不如做婚前徵信調查看看,
希望兒子不要被騙,於是我們決定私下做婚前徵信
婚前徵信的結果才發現原來女方不僅交友複雜、晚上更做傳播兼差!
兒子看了婚前徵信的報告之後,才知道原來女友的乖巧全都是假象;
兒子說幸好有我們有做婚前徵信,不然等結婚之後才發現,一定又是一段不幸福的婚姻!

Anonymous said...

通姦問題在台灣相當嚴重,
最重要的原因就是因為許多人總是忍氣吞聲,
而導致通姦的人不認為自己通姦的行為有錯!
錯誤的行為應該制止,伴侶通姦不該姑息!
通姦問題,讓專家協助您順利解決!

Anonymous said...

專業感情挽回服務,多年婚姻諮詢經驗點出婚姻問題所在,
提供正確感情挽回方法!當事人往往看不清盲點,
想要感情挽回更不得要領,導致失敗的感情挽回
讓我們提供專業諮詢與感情挽回服務,
協助您擊退第三者、成功感情挽回、重拾婚姻的幸福春天!

Anonymous said...

徵信的本質是追求真相!
太多人被蒙在鼓裡最後喪失權益而不自知,您的權益讓徵信為您守護!
不要傻傻的坐以待斃,專業徵信協助您反擊!
所有您想知道的,讓徵信為您調查清楚!
想要知道真相,讓徵信用實際證據為您解答!

Anonymous said...

徵信協會是非營利為目的的徵信團體,
我們徵信協會有專業豐富的徵信經驗、博學實務的法學能力,
秉持熱誠負責的服務態度,以及解決民眾問題為己任的精神,
是您可以放心信賴的優質徵信協會
您是否面臨各種問題苦惱不知如何解決?
想要委託徵信社卻又擔心成為徵信社眼中的肥羊?
徵信協會是您可以信賴的機構,
徵信協會幫助您解決各種徵信問題!

Anonymous said...

妹妹進了徵信社工作,說實在的當初家人超反對,深怕妹妹學壞!
然而三年過去了,常常聽妹妹提起徵信社的事情,
其實我才發現,有只想坑錢的業者,當然也有值得信賴的徵信社
而且之前親戚還因為要做個人情,委託妹妹做婚前徵信,
這才知道對方根本就是愛情騙子!
現在大家都知道我有個在徵信社工作的妹妹,
親戚朋友不管外遇抓姦離婚還是各種問題,
都會請妹妹的徵信社幫忙,
我們笑說:有個在徵信社工作的家人,
任何居心不良的人絕對無所遁形!

Anonymous said...

結婚率愈來愈低,離婚的比率卻愈來愈高!
昔日的七年之癢,現在已經縮短至兩三年!
離婚變成極可能的選項,您該怎樣維護自身權益?
想要離婚,夫妻財產怎麼分配?
想要離婚,我可以拿到贍養費嗎?
想要離婚,子女監護權會屬於誰?
這些問題您夠清楚嗎?
離婚往往是撕破臉的局面,不要奢望對方還會為您設想!
讓專家幫您解決問題,幫助您拿到屬於的一切、漂亮離婚

SheilaC said...

Hugs and prayers winging their way....
waiting until Monday is the pits...

SheilaC

FAIL said...

Oh, for fuck's sake, do you have to be so goddamn DRAMATIC?????

Merideth in Wyoming said...

Hang in there. It's hard to not worry waiting for results. Been there done this. Take a deep breath and go do something fun this weekend.
Hoping you get Good News on Monday.

Catch the Kids said...

Hope everything's OK. Fingers crossed.

Feeling Beachie said...

thinking good thoughts for you....

Dan Pearce said...

Go have an awesome weekend and try not to think about it. I'll send lots of positive thoughts your way. Let's hope and prat that you're back to hating each other on Monday!

Single Dad Laughing

Paige said...

I will be thinking of your. But I know whatever IT is, you can handle it

CatLadyLarew said...

Sending good thought for better news on Monday. *hugs*

tera said...

Adding my virtual hugs and my real prayers along with everyone else.

LegalMist said...

Praying for the best possible outcome for you. Hang in there.

RottenMom said...

Sending you prayers today, I'm sure you will get good news!