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5/28/14

Things I learned from posting about things I WANT to learn from others in the same boat about dating. (aka Put up the umbrella, cause some people love to throw crap at you.)

Yes, I posted ONCE AGAIN about being a single fifty-something woman hoping to find love and also wanting some advice.  I really just wanted suggestions; ideas; protocol advice.


Big Mistake.


So, here are the FIVE most INCREDIBLE things I learned from that now DELETED (twice) post.

5.  I was informed that men just LOVE a 50-year old woman who appears desperate for love.  Apparently there’s nothing more attractive than a woman desperate for love. 

4.  I should join clubs, take classes and spend money I don’t have on ways to keep me around men who might actually want a desperate 50 year-old woman panting for love.

3.  People who have been happily married for years are apparently experts on what to do when you are a single, fifty some year-old desperate woman.


2.  I get my feelings hurt easily.



1.  The number one thing I learned?   Don’t ever write again asking for dating advice if you’re hoping to find a companion to laugh with, hike with, travel with, talk with, cry with or have fun with.  People might mistakenly think you’re desperate.